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18 Jan 2014

The Men You Should Never Date Or Marry

Men out there complain of not getting the right girl to marry as if they are clear of faults, they are also problematic and at same point, could be a total waste of time. I have been able, based on my experiences, come up with the types of men you should avoid if you want a serious relationship so; sit tight in your chair, get your dating journal or diary, and pen and let’s take notes.
1.  Mama’s Boy: These types of men have a very close relationship with their mother, probably due to the death of their father at an early age or divorce. He’s caring, understanding and loving, his mother’s influence not only influences his career decisions but at some point, his love life. It’s not easy for such men to choose between you and his mother, it’s better then that you bow out while the motion is loud.

2.  The Toxic Bachelor: This dude is very smart, charming and well-mannered and can win you over with sweet dictions. He will also say that he has not found his Mrs. Right yet in that way, giving you high hopes, he’ll not introduce you to his friends and family because he is not prepared to get serious.

3.  The Control Freak: This type of men offers you protection at first, however, on the long run, he might end up suffocating you because he wants to keep check on your schedule and wants to know everything you do.

4.  The “I’m-Not-Over-With -My-Ex” Guy: Please “flee” from this type of men. They say the best way to get over a relationship is to get a new one; this is the principle he’s adopting here. He is still not over with his ex-girlfriend and every woman he meets does not reach the latter standard. This is probably why he will not marry you, because he is looking for his ex.

5.  The Peter Pan Man: The Peter pan syndrome is often found in some guys in their 30s or 40s that often act like high school boys and not like the real men they should be. Aside the fact that they are funny and spontaneous when you need to take a serious decision, he will probably not be around to help you.

6.  The Eternal Bachelor: Unlike the usual bachelor who runs away from commitments, the eternal romantic dude is all about marriage. He loves romance in its essence; however, once the butterflies go away, he will also be gone. Dating this asshole can seem like a perpetual honeymoon; nonetheless, pay attention because this guy is about covers and not content.

7.  The Career Guy: This is the guy, with high hopes and aspirations, still trying to figure out what he wants from his career. That’s the main reason, he is more focused on his career than your relationship because honey; believe it or not, that’s his number one priority.

8.  The I-Am-Always-Looking-For-Something-Better Guy: This type of man constantly wonders if there’s a better woman out there and hence, always keeps his options open, thus being reluctant to monogamy and highly prone to cheating.
Girlfriend, if your man falls into any of these categories, it’s time for you to decide whether to walk away or change the game. How about I throw you the ball and you choose whether to run with it or drop it.

-Jemima Daniel

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